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Wednesday, 28 December 2005

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Jonny

Let us look at it this way. This was courageous of our brothers (Enow the murderer and Agbor the adulterer). For Agbor to be found moving about with Rachael (the architect) just few days after a fight with Enow (Rachael’s legal husband) is like a man who decides to go to a war front. I think there is nothing wrong in dying for what you love most. Agbor simply took his brother for a fool. Those who live here know the kind of freaky society we find ourselves. That would obviously not be done to an “Akata” man or boy. You can be shot just by staring at someone’s girlfriend.
On the other hand, Enow, knowing the laws of this land, and still going a head to carry out his diabolical plans is like a man who decides to end his life by putting his head into the mouth of a lion. Many people (myself inclusive) would not do that. He is going to be a hero of himself in everlasting prison. Again Enow did what he wanted and may never regret the consequences.
The losers in this sad drama will be fellow family members and dependences back home.
Condolence once again

Dr A A Agbormbai

Maya,

Thanks for feeding us such good background information about this case, especially to show us that Eno wasn't the savage that almost everyone thought he was.

As far as I am concerned, Agbor and Rachel are the culprits here. Rachel, for being ungrateful, insensitive, and taking Eno for granted, and Agbor, for being the trouble maker that he is.

My moral disposition can never let me side with someone like Agbor, and with too many such evil men about one less doesn't cause me to drop much of a tear. And I would say the same if it were my own brother.

Those amongst us who behave like Agbor (and I know that there are too many of them) should learn a good lesson here, if only to remember that this world is not for them.

As you've said the only reason for giving Rachel the benefit of the doubt is so that she could take care of the child, but would she be a good mother?

With all these background information, with a good lawyer, I believe Eno has a good chance of avoiding the death penalty. He may not even get life.

Des

What´s all this in this forum. Folks just get in here 2 air out irrelevant points, some go as far as getting very close to emotions and difining the marital background of some tribes /clans back at home. I`m strongly of the opinion that, if one´s to comment on any event in this forum, it should be directly linked to the given event. We don´t just write or comment like poeple who don´t value education.
In the case of the so called Agbor and Enow. Some commentators went on by using silly slance like "the white mans weapon, grafi(s)" paying huge some of moneys for bride price and the list of the lazy comments of this nature continues.
Let me be very clear. Please, if one intends to write, be very subjective and strike the point(s). People just come in this forum and give very bad impression about bush fallers.
Call me a bush faller as well, but have no illusion, i don´t belong to that class of bush fallers this forum´ve portrayed to be fightám people. U name the rest.
Hence, people, let´s be watchful of our comments.
God bless Cameroonians.

Ejike Mouluh

Des, you cannot police the internet. No one can succeed. You memo adds nothing to this discussion.

I admire the fortitude and moral rigor of Dr Agbormbai. He has laid out a solid moral case against the causes of crime with clarity.

We will follow the trial in court. The US judiciary is not as stupid as some think. Judge and jury are going to want to know the background. A good defense attorney will cut the case well, possibly with expert witnesses. In this case, as Jonny says above, Agbor died on the "war front" of sex because Eno had quarreled with him only 3 days earlier over Mrs. Rachel Eno.

If I were in the place of Eno, beware, it would not be a handgun but a bazooka in defense of my family unit. An Agbor who wants my wife can cease her and run away to another city, convene a meeting with Cameroonian elders and declare their new relationship. I will accept the outcome and demand compensation for distress and child care.

However, I will not tolerate an Agbor sneaking into my neighborhood, disrupting my family and taking my wife to a motel in arrogant defiance of my own right to an exlusive marital relationship.

Who knows who else the Agbor is sleeping with? Isn’t this a channel for spreading biological weapons (HIV/AIDS) and devastating families? What will happen to the children? Wake up folks. You cannot live Cameroon's promiscous lifestyle in the United States because folks have a contitutional right to bear arms. Sooner or later, an angry person will discharge a weapon. Those who bring relatives from home must educate them.

On Ma Mary's point, it is up to Cameroonian sisters to make their case forcefully against polygamy. Freedom and rights are not given but ceased and defended to death. If you want early death, date an "akata" woman and cheat on her. Men have learnt not to dare because the outcome is certain – flying molten lead from a smoking hand gun.


Tekum Mbeng

Orock Mpey wrote " ... Mr. Eno should have looked for a wife of his age instead of going to Cameroon to get married to a lady twenty years younger than him".

That is very offensive. Mr. Orock is seeking to introduce age discrimination into marriage. What is the age difference between the President and current 1st Lady of Cameroon? Get close to Chantal Biya and see how many bullets will fly through your chest.

Until we know Mr. Eno's background, we cannot understand why he married later.

Perhaps, like most immigrants, Eno came here as a boy, had to work, go to school and support siblings in Cameroon first before saving for a wife. We may never know.

Well, Eno married a younger wife, perhaps to stay clear of older girls and their past relationships (baggage). He wanted to start on a clean state. God already blessed the couple with a baby son. We read earlier that Eno already built a home for his wife's parents. That shows Eno's good character.

The new arrivals, especially U.S. VISA Lottery winners may never understand the tribulations of life in America because they get "greencards" at the port of entry without tears. Take note that earlier arrivals went through much difficulties to earn greencard status.

papa

Hey folks I totally agree with Masamoyo, we must not only conclude that what Edmund did was wrong. Especially some of us who have live in the US for ages. We all know that what Agbor did qualifies him for death. It is not because Edmund is a paysan that is why we keep saying that what he did was wrong. If Agbor had done this to an Akata he'd be history many years back. Y'all who live in US know what I am talking about. Akatas don't fork. You don't mess around with them.

Bobo Akintola

Lady Kate,

Friends in the Manyu community here in Georgia tell me that it was common knowledge among them that Late Agbor was having an affair with Eno's wife......and as late as Chritmas eve (at the SOBA party), a scuffle occured between Eno and Agbor, when Eno attempted to warn Agbor to stay clear of him and his wife.....In the wake of provocation from late Agbor, Mr Eno committed murder....However, the real culprit in my opinion is the failure of community leaders within MECA Georgia and the greater Cameroonian community to condemn adultery and disrespect for the institution of marriage!!!!!

Its a tragedy for the bereaved family as well as for the family of the one who faces a murder charge. Yes we should denounce murder; however I can't help wondering why we should only wait until a murder has been committed to denounce murder and the one who murdered, when our moral compass should have instead led us to denounce the gentleman who was sleeping with another man's wife while he was alive ......Thus while we must denounce murder, we must also share collective responsibility for our sin of omission....our failure to denounce the twin evils of adultery and disrespect for the sacred institution of marriage which unfortunately, are gaining currency in our Cameroonian community here in Atlanta.

Thats why I feel that your selective focus on one side of this tragedy is not only unjust, but irresponsible!!!!

Do have a happy new year!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

attia

Posted on Sat, Dec. 31, 2005
Suspect makes first appearance in court

BY CHUCK WILLIAMS - Staff Writer

The man accused of shooting another man to death on Interstate 185 made his first court appearance Friday morning.
Edmund Eno, 42, of Columbus has been charged with the Tuesday night murder of Oscar T. Agbor, 33, of Austell, Ga.
There was no testimony during Friday's Columbus Recorder's Court hearing. Judge Michael Cielinski read Eno, a taxi driver, his rights prior to the brief court appearance. He then scheduled another hearing for Eno at 8 a.m. Tuesday.
Eno met briefly Friday morning with Public Defender Robert Wadkins.
"I believe he is going to get a private lawyer," Wadkins said. "I won't say we are out of it totally. If he doesn't get a private lawyer, he qualifies for us to represent him."
Eno was arrested early Wednesday morning. He is accused of fatally shooting Agbor shortly before 7 p.m. Tuesday as the two men were in vehicles northbound on I-185 between Macon Road and Manchester Expressway. Eno's wife, Rachel Eno, was a passenger in Agbor's Lincoln Navigator.
Edmund Eno had followed his wife and Agbor after they left a Columbus motel, police said.
Agbor was struck four times in the chest, police said. Agbor died in the ambulance on the way to The Medical Center, Police Lt. Steve Cox said. Only Agbor was struck by the shots, Cox said.

http://www.ledger-enquirer.com/mld/ledgerenquirer/13520371.htm

Tekum Mbeng

Bobo, that is a piece of disclosure to say that:

"...Friends in the Manyu community here in Georgia knew that the Late Agbor was having an affair with Edmund Eno's wife”.

As a Cameroonian, I feel ashamed. Many Manyu community leaders, MECA Georgia and friends of the late Agbor knew of the illicit affair but failed to take pre-emptive action.

This indeed suggests that our people may have completely traded away moral rectitude for permissiveness and promiscuity. There lies the plot to a tragedy. It has all the elements for a Camwood movie: community indifference, marital infidelity, gigolo, akwara, sex and murder.

Now, MECA Georgia and friends of the late Agbor must find upwards of US$12,000 (about 6 million FCFA) immediately to cover funeral bills and the air-freighting of the late Agbor body to Mamfe.

Defenders of the institution of marriage and apostles of marital fidelity must now start preparing to defend Edmund Eno aka James Bond 005 against the State of Georgia.

Eno will be jailed for taking the law into his own hands but there is abundant evidence to prove to Judge and jury that he mis-reacted in very challenging circumstances.

By taking gun initially to a cop to load it suggests Eno is no criminal – he knew Agbor was again in town to assault his young family and he proved it with deadly accuracy. This is a case that awakens raw passions and Christians would be sympathetic to Edmund Eno. Anyone who attacks the family unit egregiously in America attacks Christian values.

Princess

It’s a tragedy for the Agdor’s family
It’s a tragedy for the Eno’s family “AKA the Murderer”
It’s a tragedy for the Cameroonian community as a whole to lose a son, brother and a potential husband ETC…

Please we the Cameroonian people and all of us from the continent of African as a whole should not copy this bad behaviors from the AKATA people for those of us in the U S of A. This is their country and they will die here. For them, they are better off in jail, which is like a first home for some of them.
Too bad for Agbor he got caught and he got short now he is death. He will be going six feet under. Who is next? You all know that he is not the only one doing the same thing. There are so many Agbor’s out there and I hope this will teach them a lesson. Don’t touch what doesn’t belong to you. We don’t care if RACHEL did not love ENO but in the State of GA they were married once as they shared the house together for more than six months. Agbor did not have any right to be seeing RACHEL. But who are we to point fingers GOD almighty will give him his price up there.
Brothers please satisfy your woman. If she is a sex machine like RACHEL, you should know how to handle her and don’t let her go out side looking for Agbor vies vase Ladies give all you got to your husband remember you said to death do us path and not for sex do us path.
As for RACHEL hope you are a pretty thing getting two brothers to fight for you until one is dead. So what other family are you going to take on now? Brothers (Husbands) watch out RACHEL Eno is coming

Please let us not use this tragedy to insult other tribes. This is common in every community not just the Bayangi tribe

Now the Cameroonian community has a problem, how do we send this body back to our country? What do we tell his parents?
It has happened
What do we do now?
One dead and one in jail
Sorry the beloved families

kumbaboy

Mr. Edmund Eno has set a precedent. Let the state of Georgia deal with him as appropriate but the precedent cannot be dis-invented.

With HIV/AIDS out there, this tragedy has happened at a time when the People of Cameroon need a savior. Mr. Oscar Agbor sacrificed himself at the alter. The roving activities of people like Agbor throw the security of marital fidelity as an important protection from HIV/AIDS to the dogs. An Agbor can infect a family with HIV/AIDS and slip away.

All so-called gigolos should cease and desist their practice. The Cameroonian family deserves protection, with guns if necessary to survive the spread of HIV/AIDS and excruciating sexual immorality.

It is true that sexual immorality is not a monopoly of the Bayangi. However, Bayangi women are notorious for prostitution. The men folk encourage the bad habit. It is upon such weak morality that Agbor sought Eno’s wife and traveled out of Austell to Columbus to look for Mrs Rachel Eno. That was very brazen.

It is no use saying other tribes are also promiscuous. The victims of this tragedy are Bayangi. The Bayangis have a problem of infidelity. Face it or risk an HIV/AIDS pandemic. Ancient habits are no match for modern challenges.


Cameroon future

Hypocrites! Liars, devils.
Your comments make me sick.
Look in the mirror you morons and tell me who you see?
Cheats! All of you are cheats.
You came to America through fraud, you filed your asylum through fraud, you don't pay taxes, you download Cds for free. You copy and burn music for free. You are used to living in fraud. all of you!
Who do you think Eno is? Who do you think Agbor is ? He is the prototype Cameroonian, a fraud and a cheat.
Who do you think Rachel is? The prototype cameroonian woman: A fool, a cheat, a retardate.
I dare you to say the contrary.
Hypocrites and fake asylees!!

Another Woman

This crime will never be known as a Bayangi on Bayangi crime, or Cameroonian or Cameroonian crime but a black on black crime. We can rant all we want it has happened, ther are lessons to be learnt, Agbor will forever be in Georgia stats as homicide #21..May his soul rest in peace. It is time for us all to look within our selves and not try to judge a single person here.
Agbor is dead, please pray for his soul, he is neither the first nor the last to have dated a married woman.
Rachel, may have lots of answers to some questions, but she needs help, so do lots of other (African) women who leave their countries to America or Europe in the name of marriage.
Eno, may have done it out of anger...chances are jurors will decide his fate.
As you read this someone is cheating on your wife, husband, sister, brother, cousin or a friend...ask them to seek help!!!!
DO NOT USE A GUN, violence is not and will never be the answer.
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL!!!!!!!!!!!

Ma Mary

Something is amiss here in a lot of these postings. It is the objectification of the woman, treating or thinking of women as if they are void of self-will and rationality. Nobody can TAKE your wife from you. A cheating wife is a willing partner or active agent in the adulterous affair. Those so called gigolos are not kidnappers. This kind of thinking is essentially disrespectful of women, treating them as minors instead of as mistresses of their own lives. Perhaps it is even reflected in the choice of victim. Agbor could have killed his wife too. Instead, he kills what he perceives as the thief who has "stolen" his property.

Women are not property. Marriage is a partnership, a partnership of great responsibility that rests on the shoulders of two individuals. A woman who goes away with another man is a free agent and is responsible for her actions. Seduction is not a one way street, especially when adults are involved. A marriage contracted on the basis of equality and mutual respect stands a much better chance than one in which the woman is a bought object, a reproductive device, unvalued, unrespected. Dig deeper into these things. There is a lot more there than meets the eye. A well grounded woman will not become a willing participant in a seduction, because she would cut it out from the beginning. She will not exchange suggestive glances and will cut disrespectful and unwarranted speech really early, and she will do this whether she is at home or 2000 miles away from her family.

It is horrific to see all these justifications of violence as a means to maintain the sanctity of marriage and family. If fear is the basis of faithfulnes, it is better not to marry at all. It has to be based on mutual respect, love, principle, character. There is absolutely no excuse for that act of terminal violence. NONE at all. I would encourage my young women to be wary of African men as long as this attitude prevails.

It is also wrong to stereotype the African American community (so called Akata) as reacting uniformly violently to similar situations. Spend a couple of afternoons watching Judge Maybelline (Divorce Court) on TV to have a sense of what actually happens. Lots of people have affairs in the African American community. Only very few end up on the wrong side of a bullet, so let us avoid the stereotype.

Ma Mary

Azamah Jefferson Azamah ( New York)

Too bad!!!!!!!!!! Cameroonians pls watchout.

Lets be our brother's keeper

J Tambe

What a loss! It's a pity that such a tragic incident has led to insult bandying. Let's all try to learn a positive lesson from this.

Homme DeGrace

Luke 13:3 No, I tell you; but unless you repent, you will all perish as well!
Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Beri

Orock I don’t know you personally but I was very disappointed when I read what you posted. How dee you say that Enor got married to a girl younger than him. Is that the way you can defend your friend’s flirting altitude? I don’t think you were a good friend to the deceased because if you were, you would have advised him to back off from some body’s wife but you shared and contributed in his pleasurable conversations. If I were you I will really live with some degree of guilt in me for Agbors dead. I don’t know in what sense you classified Enor to be old for Rachael but let me tell you, those older gentlemen are better and very responsible as compared to the younger ones. Orock please if you happen to have another friend try as much as possible to make sure that he does not repeat Agbors mistakes. Well, when you get back from the burial, I will be waiting to get the details from you. Believe me or not, his mother is going to ask you why you didn’t stop him from flirting with somebody’s wife.

Beri

Hi guys, I just want to say Happy newyear to everybody and I wish you guys the best of luck in all your plans for the New year. Love you all.

charles Atem

Fellow Brothers/Sisters:

this is the time for us all to think about what we say and do.Our childrren will need to follow our examples as they saying goes. This guy has been killed.he is gone and I think the killer-Eno over reacted in this situation.Agbor did a wrong thing and has paid it in the worst of circumstances. Two wrongs do not make a righ in this case.Whether he from Bamenda Fred Spelt it (Baminda)is not an issue.He is a Cameroonian which is a shame to all of us.I hope and wish Rachel the best as she keeps her good work here in the US.

I do advise here that in other situations, people should shot to disable and not to kill.How I wish Agbor had his Penis or two leggs cut-off for messing with Eno(h)'s wife rather than lying in the mortuary.

May his soul rest in pieces as Rachel keeps thinking of how many men she will be fucking since she is now a declared prostitute.
Happy New Year to all.

Homme DeGrace

Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Luke 13:3 No, I tell you; but unless you repent, you will all perish as well!.

cool heart

GEORGIA, GEORGIA, GEORGIA! What has ATL become? I guess another babylon, a land where paysan promiscuity reigns to the highest power. Ma people them na whetti? Where u guys suprised this happened in Georgia? Every time you hear of some kind of marital infidelity, always Georgia. I am not saying it doesn't happen in other states but Atlanta eh eh eh! What suprises us (in other states) is the fact that the act(s) is/ are often done by "mami pikin them". I mean mothers! I truely feel sorry for the two guys involved in this case. Rachel is jezebel incarnate!Yes human beings sometimes act irrational, but Women of all r at least expected to act in ways that reflect norms of civility. Why in the world did she decide to stay at that party after her husband left? What was she doing at the motel with another man? I have so many questions for this gal.If she had said no, Agbor would never have had anything to do with her from the beginning up to the point of losing his life. I know it is wrong to go after another man's wife, but realistically all u men are dogs! Na women them di safe marriage oh! To all my babes out there who r representing positively power to u. If any Nga for ATL ei guy man disrespect it by going out with "some pikin ei mami" while dating u, just drop that zero and get u a hero.I am very very ashamed of these "mami for pikin them" wey dey di waka scramble people their man them or single boys. What do you expect ur kids to learn? Georgia this is a RUDE AWAKENING for u. If wunna continue, wunna go see. Pikin go one day fight ei mami over boyfriend issue. Peace I am out

cool heart

GEORGIA, GEORGIA, GEORGIA! What has ATL become? I guess another babylon, a land where paysan promiscuity reigns to the highest power. Ma people them na whetti? Where u guys suprised this happened in Georgia? Every time you hear of some kind of marital infidelity, always Georgia. I am not saying it doesn't happen in other states but Atlanta eh eh eh! What suprises us (in other states) is the fact that the act(s) is/ are often done by "mami pikin them". I mean mothers! I truely feel sorry for the two guys involved in this case. Rachel is jezebel incarnate!Yes human beings sometimes act irrational, but Women of all r at least expected to act in ways that reflect norms of civility. Why in the world did she decide to stay at that party after her husband left? What was she doing at the motel with another man? I have so many questions for this gal.If she had said no, Agbor would never have had anything to do with her from the beginning up to the point of losing his life. I know it is wrong to go after another man's wife, but realistically all u men are dogs! Na women them di safe marriage oh! To all my babes out there who r representing positively power to u. If any Nga for ATL ei guy man disrespect it by going out with "some pikin ei mami" while dating u, just drop that zero and get u a hero.I am very very ashamed of these "mami for pikin them" wey dey di waka scramble people their man them or single boys. What do you expect ur kids to learn? Georgia this is a RUDE AWAKENING for u. If wunna continue, wunna go see. Pikin go one day fight ei mami over boyfriend issue. Peace I am out

cool heart

GEORGIA, GEORGIA, GEORGIA! What has ATL become? I guess another babylon, a land where paysan promiscuity reigns to the highest power. Ma people them na whetti? Where u guys suprised this happened in Georgia? Every time you hear of some kind of marital infidelity, always Georgia. I am not saying it doesn't happen in other states but Atlanta eh eh eh! What suprises us (in other states) is the fact that the act(s) is/ are often done by "mami pikin them". I mean mothers! I truely feel sorry for the two guys involved in this case. Rachel is jezebel incarnate!Yes human beings sometimes act irrational, but Women of all r at least expected to act in ways that reflect norms of civility. Why in the world did she decide to stay at that party after her husband left? What was she doing at the motel with another man? I have so many questions for this gal.If she had said no, Agbor would never have had anything to do with her from the beginning up to the point of losing his life. I know it is wrong to go after another man's wife, but realistically all u men are dogs! Na women them di safe marriage oh! To all my babes out there who r representing positively power to u. If any Nga for ATL ei guy man disrespect it by going out with "some pikin ei mami" while dating u, just drop that zero and get u a hero.I am very very ashamed of these "mami for pikin them" wey dey di waka scramble people their man them or single boys. What do you expect ur kids to learn? Georgia this is a RUDE AWAKENING for u. If wunna continue, wunna go see. Pikin go one day fight ei mami over boyfriend issue. Peace I am out

Malan Sawyer

What you guys don't know and would never know is that I have killed many Cameroonians! I first stab their eyes, so they'll never again see and admire my wife; then I cut of their dicks, that way, they'll never penetrate her and then, to solve the problem parmanently, I stab them on every inch of their fucked up bodies, and pump as many bullets into their fucking cheating heads and then I burn their bodies and display the ashes as a reminder for others who may be tempted too. I have not been caught, at least for now, because I have done all these things in my mind! Adulterers be warned because you might just be my first real life victim!

steve

Brethren, many of the times in this forum most people miss the point completely. This is the very thing that keeps us from progressing. I don't know a tribe in Cameroon or Africa that hasn't got prostitutes. I hope you're not telling me that only the Bayangi men visited these so called "Bayangi quarters" This adultry thing exists everywhere. I think what we should concentrate on the evil that surrounds infidelity and not where the perpetrators come from because they exist in every tribe. The difference is that this whole situation turned into drama. Many who speak here will never swear by the Bible of their Purity. Infidelity is dangerous and Killing is even worst. If I may understand well adultry is about the only reason the Bible upholds for divorce. An attempt to right one vice with another has always failed. My people, a bad woman is a bad woman no matter where she comes from, so are men.

Cameroonian

Dear Nene, you sound like a very shallow-minded and bitter person and I feel nothing but pity for the likes of you. Your comments are simply ridiculous and quite primitive I must say. Your preferred language structure is extremely immoral and I dare say pea-brained individuals like you are a major setback to society. You project yourself like someone with very low self esteem who derives satisfaction from putting other people down. You desperately require psychiatric intervention and the beginning of the year seems like the right time for you to resolve to seek help. Theoretically, you are no different from the major players in this tragedy and I hope God gives you the wisdom that you desperately need this New Year and beyond.

Orock-Mpey

Homme DeGrace or what you call yourself, you may be disappointd or even eat your head! I have never approved of what my friend got invloved into with Rachel.He was a matured man and therefore responsible for his actions and ommissions.I can advice but can't stand between Rachel and him.To say I have to be guilty for not advicing Oscar is completely irresponsible on your part.People must learn to get married withing their age groups.You can't be 50 then get a lady of 21.The fact that you have been studying or doing odd jobs to sustain your family in Cameroon does not justify you not getting a lady during that period.The present first lady may be 28 and Biya is 75.Go talk to her if she is happy being a first lady! This ofcourse is no justification for younger men to go dating married young women.If Mr.Eno is responsible as you claimed and have "even built a home for his in-laws" he wouldn't have gone to the extend to which he went.Any gentleman in his place would have got another solution to what he did.I join most of you in the forum in condemning what Oscar got invloved into and also shaming Rachel.Who knows if that son of theirs does not belong to Oscar.Didn't Rachel tell close friends that Mr.Eno could not father a child??She didn't just have the courage to tell Eno the murderer that he wasn't man enough and that Oscar was their rescue so the marriage could be intact.Mr.Eno married eventhough he knew he could not go to bed with a lady and got very jealous that Rachel has looked for soneone he knows to satisfy her sexual desires.Eno knows he can be given life imprisonment and can sell his ass to homosexuals in prison.The only way he can get to prison was to kill Oscar.Mr.Eno is a complete disgrace to his family, his in-laws who have already disassociated themselves with any of his acts and to the Manyu and Cameroonian community in general.I will definetly tell you more if I happen to attend the funeral in Etemetek village in Manyu whenever that comes up.I will give the family first hand infos on what has been going on and will never be guilty of not stopping Oscar from leaving Rachel.May his soul rest in peace and Mr.Eno should be prepared to get his ass raped in prison.Happy New year to you all and may God heal the wounds that Oscar's lost has caused to his family.

Kumbaboy

Orock-Mpey,

Your memo above confirms that you are the accomplice in laying the foundation to this tragic crime. For the first time, you have clearly admitted there was a sexual relationship between Mrs. Rachel Eno and Oscar Agbor. Why did you not admit this fact earlier on to convince simpletons like Che Sunday (Dr.) and others?

You even doubt, without genetic evidence that Eno's son with Rachel is truly the legitimate product of the marriage. You attempt to de-construct Mr. Edmund Eno’s male hood by challenging his virility and sexual prowess.

Eno is reported as 42 years old in press reports, presumably based on his driving license disclosure, yet in your writing above, you prefer to age Eno further to 50 yrs in order to exaggerate the age difference with his beautiful wife, Rachel Eno. That is the work of a biased mind.

Your deconstruction project fails because it was not Orock-Mpey or Oscar Agbor who had sent Edmund Eno to Cameroon to look for a wife? You and Oscar Agbor penetrated Eno's home and castle to look for free sex. Eno caught you, warned you but you stuck like chewing gum to the last moment.

It now appears that you (Orock Mpey) encouraged Agbor. From the tone of your note, you may have been jealosed of Agbor and wished you were the one dating Mrs. Rachel Eno.

It is upon such shallow and twisted logic that predatory immorality was conceived, validated and launched against the Eno Family. Well, they say molten lead from a smoking handgun comes before a court trial. Now Agbor is dead and Orock-Mpey lives to tell the sordid tale.

Orock-Mpey, be careful with your Simple Simon logic or you will land in trouble. If I were a relation of the Enos or the Agbors, I’d advice you to stay away from Manyu in this sad period. The sword of the murder hangs in the air and it may drop on your head.

Emah

After reading alot on this tragic event, one cannot avoid the obvious, that is ask yourself some questions.

1) what moral obligation has any human being got to take away his life let alone the life of another person?
2) what moral obligation has a man or woman got to put asunder what God has put together?

Which ever way we look at it, it is simple that so much has gone already wrong and there is little we can do to turn back the hands of time.

But what actually makes me sad today the 1st of January 2006, is the commentary made by Orock-Mpey. simply put, to my mind, you are a dangerous person and in fact the family of Mr. Oscar Agbor should hold you responsible for condoning bad habit. You acted like a catalyst because you did very little to help Oscar avoid what just happened to him.

What ever the age of Racheal compared to that of Edmund is, is non of your business and even that of Late Oscar(may his soul rest in peace). After all Racheal should have been aware of Edmund's age before contracting the marriage. If she was, then will it be right that one terms her action that of a "GOLD DIGGER"?

If later she found that Edmund wasn't good enough in what ever respect she deems it, not minding the justification you seem to give, it was her place to seek for a divorce and not Mr Edmund as someone earlier said. Playing with two men at a time, one being a legal husband, attracts happenings like that. Whether the family of Racheal dissociates themselves from the actions of Edmund as he suffers what his actions befit him in jail, doesn't make Racheal any good person in the eyes of the world. Whatever the 'incapabilities' of Edmund are,it is quite a narrow view to use them as an excuse to justify the actions of the Late Oscar.There is a general concensus as I seem to read that,the late Oscar's attitude is unacceptable even at death

Orock-Mpey,your insight knowledge of the whole issue as could be discerned from your write-up, reveals that you are a very dangerous person and should be given a gap by all fellow Cameroonians there. You are in fact Oscar's murderer.

As we pray for the repose of the late Oscar's soul and for the forgiveness of Edmund,let the tragic event serve as a lesson to us all.


Happy new year 2006

Beri

Orock- mpey or what ever you call your self. Do you think you can cover up for your deceased friend by trying to criticize Eno’s age and his impotency? Just listen to your self you sound like a total looser. If your friend or you thought you were more sexually active than Eno and of course younger as you claim, why didn't you two get your own wife or girl friend from Cameroon. Rather than wait to feed from someone else’s labor. You sound like one of those guys who snick into people’s homes and apartments to have a latter breakfast when their husbands are gone.
Orock, you further claim that you talked to your friend but he will not listen to you. As a true and concerned friend, why didn’t you seek help from the manyu elders in the community on how to handle your friend's behavor?, Instead you stayed silent probably because you were a beneficiary of the affair. Boy let me tell you something, your defense strategy is not the best. You better be ready to come up with some good convincing justifications for your friend’s stupid behavior. Please a word of advice: don’t even try to testify for the prosecutor because, the defense lawyer will nail your ass during cross examination in court. If I were you I will stay far away from this whole thing because you are not helping. As kumbaboy rightly said, be careful when you get over there with the body because you might be in some deep shirt..

Homme DeGrace

In reply to Mr. Orock-Mpey's comments posted January 01, 2006 at 01:01pm; because you cited my name in your opening statements.

Sir, I did not target you as an individual. I was just giving the ultimate solution to this mess. This tragedy is the result of the sinful nature in humans. This will certainly happen again, sometime in the future if people do not repent and asked Jesus Christ to come into their life. He alone can stopped that propensity of "taking the other persons' own". God sent His son to save us from our sins. Any unsaved person will not help it but make the same mistakes. That's the fact with this fallen human race. Late Oscar T. Agbor must have heard the advice but had no power on his own to stop the sinful practice. Mr. Edmund Eno did only what he knew best in his own human weakness. That's why we needed a savior.

Many sound in this forum like experts who have their own sheets clean. If God would expose us of what we do in hiding, the things we are even ashamed of in private; we will not pick up the first stone as we are doing to stone either late Oscar Agbor or Mr. Edmund Eno. I know some who are talking against the victims negatively; but they have been living an adulterous life. (They are married but still have sexual relationship with other women).

Do not lie to yourself that you go to church. People go to hell through the church because they still are under the curse of the law. Any person without a Jesus Christ centered life breaks God's law every second and are bound for hell whether they believe it or not. The solution is turning away from sins and accepting Jesus as Lord and Savior. Do not suppress the truth about yourself.... Then, affiliate yourself to a bible believing and teaching church.


Romans 1:16-18: For I am not ashamed of the gospel, because it is God's power for salvation to everyone who believes, first to the Jew, and also to the Greek. For in it God's righteousness is revealed from faith to faith, just as it is written: The righteous will live by faith. For God's wrath is revealed from heaven against all godlessness and unrighteousness of people who by their unrighteousness suppress the truth...

This is a wake up call. I call on all "unrepented" Cameroonians to look in themselves and asked: "Where will I spend eternity; if I die today?". HEAVEN or HELL. Let the USA not fool you...what you sow is what you reap.

Thanks

reverend

Mr. Orock-Mpey (or if you even deserve a title) You are a shame to this forum of learned men and women. Who are you to cast doubt on the legitimacy of the Enos son? Do you think if Eno had suspected this he would not have ordered paternity and blood tests in a developed country like America? Furthermore there is a presumption in law that a child born to a married woman has been fathered by the woman's husband, unless the contrary is proved. So far the contrary has not been proved.

It does not matter the age difference between Edmund and Rachael as you stupidly try to imply. Was Rachael forced into the marriage? She went in with both eyes open and I hope out of true love.

I wonder if you really advised the late Agbor to refrain from the relationship. It seems as if you secretly wanted an open out confrontation. Please don't step your dirty feet in Mamfe as the last thing the family of late Agbor will want to hear is somebody trying to bring confusion. They themselves should know that their son was in the wrong and courted death by plucking an apple in another's garden. I hope they give you a sound bashing when you open your mouth to utter rubbish.

chief

This underscores what the word of God says- Be sober, be vigilant because your adversary the devil as a roaring lion walketh about, seeking whom he may ddevour-1Peter 5;8. The devil is the real author of this tragedy(concernig Agbor, Mr/Mrs Eno). His(the devil's) mission is to kill, steal and destroy-John10;10.
The foregoing stragedy confirms the fact that we are living in lastdays in which there is unprecedented global Godlessness-2Timothy 3;1-5. Everyone has sinned and has fallen short of the glory of God-Romans3;23 but there is only one-way out.
You will know the truth about it and the truth shall make or set you free. Jesus is the ONLY way,truth and life(John14;6) and if he sets you free then you are free indeed(John8;36).
Dear brothers and siters let us take the word of God seriousely and believe it. Only Jesus can set anyone free if only one believes. The most important question that one should ask his or her self is where he or she will spend eternity. Jesus loves you and wants you to spend eternity with Him but you must be born again for UNLESS a man is born agian he CANNOT enter the kingdom of heaven John3;3.
Jesus loves you and may you all know that He alone is the solution to ALL problems,for, with him all things are possible. May you all know him and the power of his might.
I wish all of you a wonderful and prosperous year 2006. May God bless.

unknown

trejo

no body cares if you have been here and back. shut up your jeloused mouth.b i need to know your level of education. i bet you are dying to be here.

unknown

hello papou

no offence intented. but it seems you do not know the value of nurses in this world. i guess you do not have an idea how long and how much patience and money it takes to complete a BSN program. At least, some people should be nurse aids also.

my condolences to the two families.

dango tumma

papou,ricardo, andre fokam are all
these jjc, johnny just come in the states
they came along with that their false
superiorty they carry on their heads back there. never bother to think for a second that anglophones have benn here for generations before them, and are the most
educated and the nost prosperious of the two camerounses, combined.
we know their psychology and thinking soo, dont bother with them, they never bother to
know they are only openly laying their ignorance.before an anglophone culture

Malan Sawyer

They say 'birds of the same feathers flock together'.I wonder whose younger and beautiful wife this sludge-head Orock-Mpey of a human being is secretly preying on? There is no doubt there are many married couples out there where the men are much older than the women, and if this idiot thinks there is something fundamentally wrong with older men marrying younger women, then one can safely assume he and his slain friend deliberately went out of their way to mess up such marriages or relationships. And the moron has the audacity to come on this forum and lay bare his stupidity. At least we now know what a retarded being he is! Mr Orock-Mpey aka Moron, you are in deed morally responsible for your pals' demise! By your very own logic, perhaps, u are the ultimate beneficiary in this tragedy, as the younger Rachel is now available to you, presumably a younger idiot! May God have mercy on you and others who think like you!

trejo

Once more :
R.I.P
AGBOR T. OSCAR

This is to the "comic" that would rather not grace this forum with a name and chose to go by "unknown":
I simply added to the fact that most Cameroonians (I said most - not all) would rather lie that they are Doctors and Lawyers (or studying to become such) when they come back home to sleep with little girls or look for women etc. By the way: since you doubt my level of education I'll let you know I work for SONARA (you might've heard of it - maybe), after completing a degree from Notre Dame (in Indiana, USA) - and while we're waxing on the topic of education: your diction is horrible and the only difference between you and a complete idiot is the "shift" key on your keyboard. Try punching it next time you begin a senctence and also send a decoder for your "language". You give me reason to think the Cameroonian educational system has failed impressively. Further more, try to understand that a pc has many other uses than just for browsing porn. I take it you are a nurse/aid? - Now why would I think that?

OROCK MPEY - What the hell have you done? You just put your foot in your mouth. Do not expect any sorrow from the Cameroonian community in Atl. I hope and pray for your sake that "OROCK MPEY" is not your real name for sooner or later someone is going to catch up with with this site and the rest will be quite amusing... how could you belittle an encarcerated, rightfully frustrated (and justfully so) man's manhood while the blood of your late "friend" is still warm? Notice the quotations around the word friend. Did his manhood or lack thereof give you reason to mount an attack on his wife - or help your friend with it?
Not wanting to sound all triassic but seriously:

*OSCAR'S BLOOD IS PARTY ON YOUR HANDS*

and You have literally shamed us all

Jimmy Stan

I THINK WE SHOULD ALL THANK THE POST FOR THE INFORMATIONS THEY GIVE US AND FOR MAKING IT EASY FOR US TO READ OTHER PEOPLES IDEA AND WRITE BACK. I THINK BY THISTYPE OF COMMUNICATION WE CAN RIGHTLY COME TO A COMMON AGREEMENT.
WE SOULD NOW BE THINKING OF HOW THIS AFFAIRE WILL BE SOLVED IN MANYU, THE DEED HAS BEEN DONE.
I THINK IT IS TIME FOR ALL MANYU ASSOCIATIONS TO COME TOGETHER AND SEE HOW THEY CAN SOLVE THIS CONFLICT, SINCE WE ARE TOLD THE TWO FAMILIES ARE VERY CLOSED.

rapture

Dear Brothers and Sisters the devil has fufilled his mission in the lives of Agbor, Eno and Rachel.
The devil comes to kill, steal and destroy(John10;10).
He(the devil)has;
-killed Agbor,
-stolen the marriage of Eno and Rachel and
-destroyed the live of Eno.
No human being (regardless of tribe, province,nationality,colour,education or race)can withstand or overcome the temptations of the devil unless the Lord Jesus is his/her Lord and personal saviour. The devil tempted all the aforementioned persons.
He the devil tempted;
-Agbor and Rachel to commit adultery(Galatians5;19-21), and
-Eno to murder (Mathew5;21-22).
Before any one judges and condemns them,let him/her first examine him/her self and see whether s/he is standing right with the Lord. The commandments of the Lord are summarised in the 10 commandments(Deuteronomy5;6-21 and Exodus20;1-17). Examine yourself and see whether you have not broken any of the foregoing commandments. What does the Lord Jesus say in this respect? "JUDGE NOT, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged; and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. And why beholdestt thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and behold, a beam is in thine own eye? Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy borther's eye"(Mathew7;1-5).
To God sin is sin. There is nothing as small or big sin. whether it is fornication,adultery,murder, lies, envy, drunkeness, wrath, strife,seditions, heresies, revellings, lust,pride,etc, it is sin and the consequence is eternity in the lake of fire(Revelation20;11-15). Eternity in the lake of fire is a dreadful fake with absolutely NO hope of escape forever and ever. Man's opinion is irrelevant when it comes to this matter. What is relevant is what God Almigthy the creator of the universe(Genesis1;1) says. The lake of fire is mainly prepared for the devil and his demons(Mathew25;41). Nonetheless, people elect to spend eternity there by choice (whether wittingly or unwittingly)by rejecting the only way of escape namely the sacrifice of the Lord on the cross of Calvary. Jesus Shed his precious blood on the cross of Calvary in order to redeem or purchase you from the kingdom of darkness into the kingdom of light,for, without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness of sins(Hebrews9;22). This was done exclusively out of love so that you would not spend eternity in the lake of fire with the devil and his demons.
Jesus loves you and wants you to spend eternity with Him if you will accept him as your ppersonal Lord and Saviour. The choice is yours.
Do you want to know more about Jesus, send a mail to rapturealarm@yahoo.com
May the Lord bless you abundantly and see you through in 2006.
Theodore

Tekum Mbeng

JIMMY STAN,

The respected Dr A. Agbormbai who I believe is from Manyu has clearly advocated for fidelity and moral rigor on all fronts.

Manyu elements in America have an urgent duty to improve the image of Manyu people through advocacy of solutions. We want an end to the current crisis in sexual promiscuity through practical measures.

For example, the women should be distributed battery-powered vibrators and the men should be assisted to marry.

Cheating husbands and wives should be shamed in public. We need a website to report men who are sexually harassing women and vice versa.

Mentally-stunted men like Orock Mpey who think older men have no right to marry beautiful and younger brides are social terrorists. The solution to terrorism is education and severe penalties to those who infringe social norms. An Orock Mpey is a weapon that can be disarmed by castration like they do in North Cameroon.

Enough is enough. Happy New Year!

LADY T

ENOW AND AGBOR WERE JUST FIGHTING FOR UGLY RACHEL WHO IS NOT WORTH FIGHTING FOR IS IT NOT A SHAME THAT A HANDSOME AND EDUCATED YOUNG MAN LIKE AGBOR WOULD GO AFTER AN UGLY GIRL LIKE RACHEL.RACHEL THE BLOOD FOR TWO PEOPLE IS IN YOUR HEAD.YOU WERE LUCKY TO HAVE EDMUND IN YOUR LIFE YOU'LL FIND NO MAN SWEET AND CARING LIKE HIM UGLY THING.

Adolph Tabi

The public is hereby informed that the following funeral arrangements have been made for the funeral of late Agbor Oscar Tabi:

Friday January 6, 2006 : Wake at SPIKES
1115 Powder Springs Rd
Marietta, GA.
From 8.00pm to 3.00 am.

Saturday January 7, 2006 : Viewing and memorial service at
West Cobb Funeral Home Inc.
2480 Macland Rd, Marietta, GA 30064
From 1.00pm to 4.00pm.
Saturday January 7, 2006 : Reception at SPIKES (1115 Powder Springs Rd)
From 5pm to 10 pm.


Meanwhile friends and well-wishers eager to help financially in repatriation efforts to carry his remains back home are hereby informed that a fund has been set up for that purpose. The account information is as follows;

Institution: Bank of America
Routing number: 061000052
Account number: 003345031291.

For more information please call 678-618-0517 or 770-572-2741.
Thanks For Your Support.
Adolph Tabi.

mezamatic

As a man i can understand the anger the brother had in his mind knowing somebody is nyashing his wife badly. But shooting the guy was not the solution. He could have given him some kung-fu trashing if he could.
There's one thing which is missing from all this lenghty discussions; Maybe the Girl had already given her husband a red card. Were they still living togeather? Had she talked to her husband about any prblems they had or was she trying to make a fool out of the husband? Why did the husband not kick her out of the house if he knew her wife was nyashing outside? Or maybe the husband was the course of all this. Well i don't know this guy personally but as i can take from this discussions her "imported" the wife from cameroon. My personal opinion is most of these guys who "import" wives from cameroon are not ticking well in their heads. Thats how the story always goes. The girl come to Europ/USA then realizes the husband is a "slacker" and she finally falls in the hands of one small jeune homme. Maybe there are exceptions(maybe 2-5%) but i hav'nt seen any.

Mami Ngassa

Ma Mary,

It seem from your writings on this topic that you're an Angry African Sister who has a lot of scores to settle with our african brothers here in the USA. Why my sister? Sometime tells me your clocking is ticking and you're yet to find you a soul mate ...
Cheating is more rampant here in the USA than in Cameroon but it seems you'll rather not accept this fact based on your writings on this topic . Why do you think America has the highest rate of divorce in the entire world/universe? because of no family values.My instinct dictates to me that my sister Ma Mary is one of those Old Cameroonian Sisters out there whose clock is ticking faster thus she uses this incidence to pour all her vernon on Cameroonian /African Men ....It is fact that if Edmund was an American,especially African American,(Akata) Both Rachel and Agbor would not have deared to do what they did hence I will advice my dear sister Ma Mary to be more objectives and keep personal feelings and stop all these her Bashing of African Men on this forum
As a woman myself, wether we like it or not, human beings will always cheat and men especially will continue to do it more than Women because its a man's world whether we accept it not.........The rate of high divorce today amongst our african Societies here in the US can easily be contributed to the fact that most of our African Sisters here in the States have lost or throw away our traditional African Values as Women ...Once we get to the states all we're interested in doing is Copying the Western Life styles and at times leave above our means etc.....Do you believe in your right mind that if this was in Africa, Rachel or Agbor will dear be having affair openly like they did at the Soban Party prior to this kiliing ?
What I'll never condone is the Killing of another Human being (Man) for the seek of anther human being(woman)..I still can't comprehend the actions of all the parties involved here ..
So what I am asking from my fello Sister Ma Mary to be more Objective and keep her emotions personal experience and dissppoint with Cameroonian Men aside and me more realistic as far as this matter is concern..All parties are to be blame !

Mami Ngassa

Orock-Mpey

Dear brothers and sisters,
We have lost two brothers from Manyu and Cameroon.We have lost Oscar and will have Mr.Eno in prison, this is also a lost.It is rather sad that all this happened because of a woman.God alone knows why certain things happen and no amount of explanations can tell the story.I have never defended the actions of my friend Oscar or try to justify his involvement to a married lady.I have not been trying to convince you that he was right, never! No right man, young, educated and handsome will continue with someone's wife after several warnings from friends and family members even from Mr.Eno Edmund himself.This however, does not mean Mr.Eno is right to do what he did.We all understand his frustration and humiliation from the Cameroonian community here but there were other channels through which he would have taken matters, he failed to do that.Oscar is dead and we all living have to learn from mistakes of others for only fools learn from their own mistakes.I am aware my contributions in this forum have been completely misconstrued by most of you.One thing elder brothers must understand is that never go and and fetch for these gold diggers home in the name of wives.You leave the States or Europe and all girls want to share in your Dollars but when you bring them here they see the reality of things.You must have seen the detail funeral programme for our friend and brother Oscar posted in this forum.There are also details for contributions.We call on brothers and sisters here and elsewhere to come up with cntributions to help the family take the remain home.I am sorry if any of my contributions have hurt any of you readers but this has not been the intention.Young people, please never never go out with a married woman.If at anytime you mistakenly get involved in such a relationship, stop immediately you realise the lady is married.We all know married women are very tempting.As one sister wrote earlier on, pray hard and get to know Christ and with Him you will resist all the temptations of this world.I wish you all a prosperous and blessed new year.May the soul of Oscar rest in peace and may God have mercy and forgive Mr.Eno.For Rachel, time will tell!

Ma Mary

Dear Sister Mami Ngassa:
You misunderstand my two or so postings on this matter. Please, read them again at a more reflective time. I do not condone cheating at all. I just think marriage should be governed by family values as you put it,and not by fear and violence. You know how in the Arab countries women stay in line because they are terrorized by their husbands and families. That is not good. Family values begin in how we raise our children and how we conduct ourselves to society and those children. Loyalty and love must emanate from free will, and women and men have to be partners for that to happen.

About my clock, that is personal but it finished ticking a long time ago and I am quite proud of my age and accomplishments. No, I am not on the market, but when I was, it was great, and I was lucky to have met a good man who respected me and treated me as an equal partner and not a mere appendix. You sound like a nice lady who has been equally lucky.

It is shameful when men cheat and protect the discredited institutions of polygamy and concubinage yet go ballistic when they are cheated upon. That is the hidden side of the male anger and outrage that we read up and down these pages. It is a double standard, my sister. Family values based on free will and responsibility on both sides should be the goal. One person here implied that our women should go shooting men to stop the archaic practices. That is not good. Maybe that is not what he meant, he just used an image that was too strong, just like I do sometimes myself. Maybe he meant that women should be stronger at opposing the things that turn them into minors who cannot think in their marriage homes. My advice to young women is that if they behave like desperate women, they will attract the wrong kind of men. Keep your standards; avoid violently jealous men, because they will physically and emotionally abuse you, even kill you.

That has nothing to do with this case, the details of which will show up in court. It has to do with reading between the lines of what people are saying here.

Ma Mary

Beri

Orock now you sound like a responsible gentleman. I am very happy that you have realized that what you wrote about Eno was wrong. Thanks once more for your apology and have a safe trip home as you go for the burial of Agbor, and may his soul rest in peace.

Cameroonian (Mrs S.A.M.)

Dear contributors, fellow Cameroonians:

Please let us find it in our hearts to forgive Mr. Orock-Mpey for his blunt and insensitive remarks. I am pretty sure his intentions were miles away from hurting anyone and his latest comment clearly demonstrates that. My heartfelt condolences to the Agbor family and may God be with Mr and Mrs Eno as well as their families and friends throughout their trials and tribulations.

Dear Orock-Mpey:

I presume the primary objective of your latest comment is damage control but you might want to chill and let the people you inadvertently hurt through your seemingly insensitive remarks come to terms with their grief and any other emotions they might be traversing at this point. I feel particularly sad by the very hurtful remarks that people have made in response to your previous comment(s) because despite your angry utterances against Mr. Eno, you seem to be standing by your friend, Oscar. That, in my opinion, is quite honourable as long as you do not go about it at the expense of others. The biggest problem at this point is that with every new comment you make, you contradict yourself and that might land you in more trouble, especially since it is apparent that you were tactless enough to use your real name in such a public setting. Take is easy, standing by your friend through thick and thin is truly what friends are for but assassinating the character of Mr. Eno, given that you hardly know the guy is not a very smart move.
Good luck to you and my condolences for the loss of your friend. Between you & I, please enough of the comments and start mourning Oscar. May his soul rest in perfect peace!

Bruce williams

4KILO OLD BOY I DEY FOR YA BACK TRONG TRONG. SEE EH YA MAN DON ALREADY START PACK CARGO FOR COMMOT DI ATLANTA. CHABAII NA WHICH KIND PLACE BE DIS NOR? PAYSAN DEM FOR HIA NA HAYLELE SO SO TIF, LIE, FOLLOW PEOPLE THEIR WOMAN DEM, KONGOSSA ETC. DI KANA TIN SEP SO WAY E HAPPEN FOR AGBOR NO FIT SURPRISE ME AT ALL. SOME OTHER PLACE TOO NA DC AND MARYLAND. I BEG WONA CONTRI PIPO FOR CAMEROON IF U WANT CAM FOR AMERICA NO GO DC MARYLAND OR ATLANTA COZ DAT PLACE DEM ROTTEN. PIKIN DEM HATE BOOK FOR THEY SOTAY I SHWEAR TO GOD MAN NO VA SEE DI KANA TIN. NA SO SO PARTY PARTY DEM LIKE AND HOW FOR WAKA UP AND DOWN GI PEOPLE AIDS. IF U SEE CLOTHES WAY DI WA PASAN SISTA DEM FOR HIA DI WEAR SEP NA U YOU FIT RAPE AM FOR NITE EVEN IF NA YA PIKIN. I KNOW ALL WONA WAY WONA WANT DESTROY OTHERS THEIR FUTURE FOR DI PLACE BUT GOD FORBID E NO GO WAKA. MAKE THUNDER FIRE WONA NYASH DEM ALL. OKAY I DON GO FOR NOW.

BRUCE WILLIAMS,
ATLANTA, USA

FYI - unrelated incident - Ref.: verdict of Cameroonian man who killed a Cameroonian woman in Canada

Killer guilty on lesser charge
Man didn't intend to strangle woman

But jury convicts on manslaughter
Dec. 16, 2005. 01:00 AM
PETER SMALL
STAFF REPORTER

A man who strangled a kind-hearted woman putting him up in her Etobicoke apartment has been found not guilty of second-degree murder.
But yesterday a jury convicted Arthur Balla-Mekongo, 30, of manslaughter in Theresa Efimba's death, a crime to which he had already pleaded guilty.
The 6-foot-6 Balla-Mekongo stood impassively in a black suit and brown open-necked shirt as the jury foreperson read out the verdict. He barely reacted.
But for the elder brother of the 57-year-old victim — known as "Mother" Theresa to friends — the verdict was a bitter blow.
"She helped many homeless people in this city of Toronto," said Robert Efimba, who flew in from Washington, D.C. "Finally this last one took her life."
A few months after Efimba allowed the man to live in her apartment near Martin Grove Rd. and Eglinton Ave. W., he choked and beat her as she lay in bed on Halloween night 2003.
The jury was shown a chilling two-hour video of Balla-Mekongo's police confession in which he laughed as he described the killing. He said that he had regarded Efimba, increasingly, as his enemy. The native of Cameroon thought she might be a computer, cyber-virus or witch, he told homicide detectives.
"After I killed her, there was no real remorse because, I mean, that's a witch and back home that's how we deal with witches," said Balla-Mekongo.
His lawyer Victoria Tucci argued he did not have the specific intent to kill Efimba because of mental illness — he had been diagnosed schizophrenic — and his having consumed alcohol and LSD before the killing.
Balla-Mekongo's mother, Francois Olsen, testified she saw his behaviour deteriorating in the years before Efimba's death. His hygiene declined, he became suspicious and felt people were giving him the evil eye. He feared for his life and walked around with a knife, she said.
The jury could have found him not criminally responsible for the killing by reason of his mental state, but they rejected that verdict. Instead, they found him responsible, but not having formed the requisite intention to be guilty of murder.
"I'm ecstatic," Tucci said of the Superior Court verdict. "There were complicated issues and the jury figured them out."
Prosecutor Tom Schneider argued before the jury that the accused knew what he was doing during the slaying. Balla-Mekongo's behaviour wasn't what one would expect from someone mentally ill and he'd never been treated for such illness before the slaying, Schneider said.
After the verdict, Schneider said only that "the jury has spoken and justice is served."
But Efimba's brother called the verdict a travesty.
"A person can plan a killing, consume some alcohol and LSD and get off by claiming they didn't know what they were doing."
Balla-Mekongo's sentencing hearing before Justice Paul Rivard is Jan. 25.

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SHE WAS IMPORTED
(A comment originally posted on CAMNETWORK forum)
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Importation is when an African who lives abroad goes to Africa to bring a spouse. When an African who lives abroad mingles with an African or foreigner, it is called export. If an African from the same country and tribe marries a spouse from that country and tribe it is called homemade. Africans say they import their spouses sometimes because of home scarcity or low morals and integrity of foreign partners. Exportation dominates the paper market while for lovelily importation is rampant. Many Africans especially the men used to go back to Africa to bring their wives. Now the women too have obtained licenses in the import & export business. Before the men had problems with the virtues of foreign women and the insubordination of Africarinas (African woman living abroad). The best of thought was to go home, get a homemade, remote control her so that before she makes you a lovelorn importer, you have raised her status to either a primigravida or a primipara that she is at a point of no return. The first importers succeeded.
Today, it is no longer so. Before these imports come from home their eyes are shining that after six months on stay they will be schooling you on driving lessons to stop and buy Macdonald if you dare question them why they did not cook like Gloria (attached).
Most of the imports were far younger than their importers especially the women for the men. They are still very vibrant and most of the importers are always out consumed by their jobs. Secondly, both of them have never even known each other. They went and married them like you go and buy clothes from the market. You are passing, you see a good one and you ask the Maquida how much it costs, you buy it and take it home. That is where the Sancho (Mexican term for someone who comes to use your wife when you go to work) comes in and you are cuckolded. Thirdly, sometimes the women are more beautiful than the men and having crossed their danger river they start feeling embarrassed appearing in public with them. Fourthly, the imports have already had Africarina friends who will brainwash them to payback the importer for abandoning them (Africarina) in cold only to cross those oceans for the hotty. That has been doddering slowly into some nuisance. These quizzical anecdotes point towards the recent shooting we are still mourning.
Miabintan is a lawyer who went home and brought a boy she wanted to marry. Immediately as the guy realized the woman had filed for his papers he began saying the woman was old. He spent his time sleeping out with other women. Did you not know she was old before you came?
Bethsaeli; a registered nurse imported her husband. We celebrated it and six months after the young man says “she bought me with money. I did not want to marry her”. He did not say all of this when he was in Cameron only after when he reached here. Now he sleeps in his sister’s house. Shame to you! If you don’t like a girl even her papers should not interest you.
Climaxa is a computer specialist who brought his wife here. She quickly found her high school sweetheart and not long Climaxa became a cuckold husband. The wife and Sancho even made an accident on their way from their love trip. His misnomer now is Jealous Husband.
Tambekong is a retired army who went and married his former student. Two months after she landed, she too was sleeping with an African American that she ran and went to his house. Thank God with prayers she is home now and they are fine. This case is a miracle. Killing is not a solution. Love is!
Ntuikup was a cab driver who went and brought his wife from home. Thanks to her she had her legality. Immediately she knew she will have it, she became a bidet for every micturition, teasing every penis (biological word) she could find out there as if she was starving. I guess the husband has to start asking them if they want to see his gun.
Krankan is a Tires and Wheels dealer. His own import was running around making him a cuckold until he threatened to take her back home. When she goes to parties she only dances with other men and may give the man one or two chances on the floor. I wonder if she gives it to him without struggle. Baboon di work weak monkey di chop. Diettt, like my Bambui PAs used to say.
When I wrote that we must stop treating foreign men and women like this: marrying them to get papers and divorcing as soon as you received your papers, most of you berated me for being unrealistic. Folks, it is catching up with us too. Now imports and Africarinas marry you for papers. The question now is what is wrong with foreign women? Why do we want exports for papers only when the imports and homemades do the same thing? I believe a good spouse is a good spouse no matter her/his peregrinity, color or status. I am not saying it is the norm but that should tell us that foreign men and women are as good as those imports and homemades. There is no marriage that is perfect. All can attain happiness with dieing to self.
I know women go home to get married for lack but the men cannot tell me so too. There are eight women per man in Georgia. If bitter kola, Guinness and herbs can’t make you reverberate her heat and your job makes you to constantly be out of the house, please, know that, that which you fear shall befall you. Those younger girls are just too hot for someone of you living abroad. The woman will be happy the first weeks she comes with material but after sometimes she wants both: material and your presence. Before you know it, she will be interrogating you “I marry na house”. If you don’t have the strength, marry an older woman or workaholic (the one that works two and a half jobs). So at least you know you have a woman at home. This one would not even bother you if you are alive or dead. You smile don’t you? Let us avert some of these avoidable irritants we are going through now.
Until then I hope people will make serious reflections before engaging in import and export business. Sawale: the thing wey I di finam na yi go so oh.

Prince and PA Hamilton Ayuk

Christmas Atem Ebini

CELEBRATING THE MANYU WOMAN


BY

Christmas Atem Ebini

IT will hardly be an overstatement if one was to say the Manyu woman is one of the most misunderstood and misrepresented woman amongst the women-folks in Cameroon, as per ethnic classification. Most men and young men entering the daring stage of sexual puberty get their first knowledge of the existence of the Manyu division through their women, who benefiting from the early tradition of cultural liberalism and democracy, left the villages and entered a trade which though western in its nature and practices, was to become a disturbing trade-mark that has been branded on the Manyu women in particular and the Manyu tradition in general by outsiders who have rushed to judge from their limited experience.

The phrase "nyangi" when used by any Cameroonian who is a non Manyu would refer to one thing, and one thing alone: a people from a place where there is traditional "prostitution" or a pervasive sexual liberation. However disturbing this may sound to a nationalistic Manyu "esakamu" or a better deserving "ngosong" who must resent being addressed as such (and rightly so), the truth of the matter is that some of our women have earned for us and very well so, the pervasive sexual connotation our friends have so generously attached to our being and tradition. The Manyu people as by their nature and tradition, though disturbed with the image some of their women have earned for them and their division nationally, have been extremely careful and tactful in making derogatory comments that would alienate their sisters already facing public exposure, and this is with obvious reasons. A careful analysis is required to understand why some of the manyu women, by choice or design found themselves in a trade that has risked reducing the image of the entire manyu women to public ridicule and as generous sexual distributors.

It is difficult to state clearly a single factor that let the manyu women into the trade of prostitution but there are several genuine circumstances that have widely been presented as potential excuses: economic hardship, marital neglect/abuse, the bad influence of a few rotten apples, etc.

Most of the women of manyu descent who got into prostitution would, in every two out of three cases, blame their choice of trade on economic hardship. Most of them lived in villages and from parents who were either too poor or too irresponsible to send them to school. This is evident if one was to look at the level of education or the degree of illiteracy amongst the sisters of our numerous "quartier banyangis" littered in most of the major cities and towns around the nation and in some cases, in other countries in Africa. Some left the villages with the blessings of their parents and once settled in their new trade, became the economic backbone of their families in the villages, giving away their precious bodies to send their brothers and sisters to places their parents could not afford to send them.

The manyu men have their own share of blame for the fate of these our sisters. Growing up as young girls, they married men they thought they would share the rest of their lives with. The men paid dowries as is traditionally required but once they have had the best of their young brides, they treated them as their household possessions. Their troubled marriages would expose them to all forms of spousal abuses and most often they will run away to their parents to complain of their plights. The parents would take them back to their abusive marital homes under the pretext that she cannot leave her husband no matter what she may be going through because they did not have money to give back the dowry they received from their in-laws. These husbands knew the condition of things and they exploited it to keep their enslaved and abused wives in marriages they knew would not exist had the women the money to pay back their socalled dowry. When these women could not take it any longer, rather than go to their parents who will continue telling them the obvious, they took full responsibility of their destiny. They escaped to the coast (cities and towns) to trade their bodies for money to buy their freedom from their abusive husbands.

The factor of bad influence from a few rotten apples is the factor that remains the most annoying and irrational to this disturbing state of affair. A few bad girls and women who could not cope with school, went to the cities and lived the wild life of prostitution. They were able to make some quick money, bought some clothes, bleaching cream and went to the village, enticing young girls and married women to join them in their evil lifestyle in the cities. Like the serpent did to Adam and Eve, luring them to eat from a tree they were told not to eat from by the Almighty, with the regrettable effect of inheriting death from their quest for false knowledge and glory, so the ignorant women and girls of the village followed their tempter and "corrupter" to the lowest of their existence.

The intention of this writer is not to hold brief for nor pass judgement on the manyu women who find themselves in the prostitution trade, for whatever reason. Far from it. These women are an integral part of our cultural existence and they are pillars in every effort to preserve and promote our tradition. They and their trade have become part of us and as much as we may hate this turn of event, our unconditional love for our sisters puts us in a position to accept them both and live with the situation until such a time when we would find an applicable and effective solution. Another reason why this issues must be said and said by us (manyu elements), is to send a message to those from other ethnic groups who assess us only at the level of this issue, as objects of ridicule. If our women are seen in prostitution and seen so publicly, it is because of their refusal to live hypocritical lives. Women of other ethnic groups top the charts of promiscuity in the dark, even when they are married with children.

It is sometimes said: to every dark cloud, there is a silver lining. I would say this concerning the manyu woman: to every shining star, there is a shade of dark cloud. The manyu woman has always been and will always be a bright shining star, with the prostitution problem just a tiny shade of dark cloud. The manyu woman is a precious jewel of our divisional pride and it gives this writer great pleasure to have the opportunity to celebrate her. This celebration must not just be in pieces we write but in almost every aspect of our cultural existence. If there is a single asset that has kept the manyu division and its people going, that asset is the manyu woman. You see her in the classrooms, in the professions, in the homes and ofcourse in child bearing and raising.

The manyu woman has excelled in academics. It is common place to find a manyu woman who made straight "A" grades in the general certificate of education at both levels, to move on and walk through university with "mention tres bien". Her academic excellence has opened the door for her to also get in and excel in every professional capacity.

In spite of her high degree of achievement professionally and academically, the manyu woman has maintained a level head, pushing away any temptation of arrogance and obnoxiousness, a common defect with most shallow achievers. She has not for one second abandoned her place in the house: providing love, education, peace and an atmosphere of growth within her household. She has always been there for the welbeing of her children, from the excruciating pains of child bearing, to the emotional strain of child upbringing. She is even there for her overbearing husband, who most often spends all of his time and their money in "chicken parlors" and "deuxieme and troisieme bureaux". She will always work hard to make her husband something, even when he does not quite deserve it.

I know of the misconception the public have about the manyu woman. All this is either due to ignorance or the passing of quick judgement based on subjective and unscientific information. Any honest man who has had an honest and mature relationship with the manyu woman, would tell you that she is the most dependable woman and committed to her relationship and faithful to her partner. Honest, respectable men of other ethnic groups who have come to shop for love and marriage from the manyu woman, would tell you that the manyu woman they married has brought them untold joy and happiness. Even the men in our villages would not make it through another day without the strength and dedication of the manyu woman. Some of the men have realized this and they show their appreciation for the manyu woman in their own ways: some would not drink a cup of palm wine, either in the "epkwe house" or in social gatherings, without sending for his woman to come and sip it with him.

It is usually said: a queen is not recognized in his own home. So too are the blessed qualities of the manyu woman sometimes not appreciated by the manyu man. Every manyu son should give praises to God for the quality of the manyu woman. It is a blessing and a gift that God wants us to express gratitude through the way we treat the manyu woman. Let us make her feel always as a princess both in the private of our bedrooms and in the exposure of our public appearances and functions. She is beautiful, she is educated, she is committed and faithful and on top of it all, she is motherly. What more could we possibly ask for? Feel her, put your hands around her neck, kiss her on the lips, gently rub her back, look her kindly in the eyes and whisper sweetly and softly in her ears and say: I LOVE YOU MY BEAUTIFUL MANYU WOMAN. When you do this and mean it, you would have created for yourself a perfect paradise right here on earth and not even the floods of Noah's days would destroy it. Join me then, in celebrating the MANYU WOMAN.

My celebration takes me to the lengths of nurturing the paradise I am building with my own God given MANYU WOMAN.


mammie J

I JUST WANT TELL WONNA SAY ATLANTA GIRLS AND WOMEN TOO DEM DEY AFTER PEOPLE HUSBANDS ESPECIAL THE ONES WEY THE NO GET MAN FOR SCREW THEM ASS.ALL MAN THEM MAKE THEM LOOK OUT FOR WOMEN OR GIRLS WEY THEM THEY GO FOR THAT CAMEROON BEER PALOUR FOR MACLAND RD PODERSPRINGS FOR ATLANTA,ALL THE GIRLS WEY THE THEY COME DEY THEY SLEEP WITH ATLANTA WOMAN HUSBAND ESPECIALLY SOME NYANGIE WOMAN WEY E SHOT AND BLACK SHE THEY SLEEP WITH ALL PEOPLE HUSBANDS.ATLANTA WOMEN IF YOU FIND YOUR HUSBAND YOU NO SEE GO FOR THAT BEER PALOUR.

PAPA JOE

I JUST WANT TELL WONNA SAY ATLANTA GIRLS AND WOMEN TOO DEM DEY AFTER PEOPLE HUSBANDS ESPECIAL THE ONES WEY THE NO GET MAN FOR SCREW THEM ASS.ALL MAN THEM MAKE THEM LOOK OUT FOR WOMEN OR GIRLS WEY THEM THEY GO FOR THAT CAMEROON BEER PALOUR FOR MACLAND RD PODERSPRINGS FOR ATLANTA,ALL THE GIRLS WEY THE THEY COME DEY THEY SLEEP WITH ATLANTA WOMAN HUSBAND ESPECIALLY SOME NYANGIE WOMAN WEY E SHOT AND BLACK SHE THEY SLEEP WITH ALL PEOPLE HUSBANDS.ATLANTA WOMEN IF YOU FIND YOUR HUSBAND YOU NO SEE GO FOR THAT BEER PALOUR.WE NO WANT TOMORROW MAKE WE HERE SAY NA WOMAN DON DIE.

reverend

Hello Christmas,

I have just read your interesting piece which can be classified as a veritable "ode to the Manyu woman". The truth is that most people just sit back and make very foolish assumptions without taking the time to know people. I am from Bamenda area (Baminda?) and have many female friends from Mamfe. They are just girls like any other, growing up, facing the trials of puberty, making mistakes etc. Sexual promiscuity is rife in all areas of Cameroon due to the general fall in morality and it is despicable to blacken just one area.

If you look at the HIV prevalence rate statistics from the Ministry of Health, it is higher in North West (Bamenda) than South West (Manyu).

The case of the Australian who was duped by a Manyu girl (with the complicity of her family and apparently the whole village) has not helped matters though in cleaning the Manyu image. Its time some responsible "elite" or chief from that area goes on a moral crusade to clean the image.

okorantim

Mr Ebini,
This is a well presented image of the Manyu Woman. They are offcourse not the most promiscous women in Cameroon. Just that they are straight forward and not hypocrites.
She can be the most enjoyable woman if well understood and respected. But she can also be a curse if you take then for granted ( just like any Akata or Lovely Oyibo woman can suddenly become).
I thank God for giving me a lovely and supportive Manyu Woman I can always love and rely on.

tita espoir

guys true love and greed for money and material possessions are a dilemma in the lives of women of this ages.but girls,should u ever find u self in such a situation its better to make a clear dicision on which path to follow.so that u can speck the truth and shame the devil,rather than living in a world of deception.this can be deadly.set the hurting souls free by facing the truth and making a clear choice of how u want to live u live.this can be hurting to the disappointed partner but i assure u if this lady was not trying to shoot two birds with one stone this tragic incident wouldnt had happened.u cant serve two masters at the same time.GIRLS STOP BEING DECEPTIVE MAKE CHOICES THAT U CAN LIVE WITH.TO ME, TO BE SET FREE FROM DILEMMAS OF LOVE AND MONEY U MUST FOLLOW U HEART.DECEPTION IS DEADLY.and u this americawanders "bushfallers",u talk too much,help develop this our country.that should be u mission.stop having limited minds.maybe u think america is the end of the world.by the time u finish living the lousy live most of u are living there,there would not even be a land of u own to bury u.guys most important comes before impotant.peace and love.

Dr A A Agbormbai

Christmas Atem,

Thanks for an illuminating article on the Manyu woman. It is Manyu men who really have to sort out their acts when dealing with their wives, whom they often take for granted. Most of the time the Manyu man is abusive to his wife and may force her into unusual behaviour. Of course, this does not condone the behaviour of some Manyu women, like Rachel, who take advantage of their husband's good spirit.

Nungong

That wasn't the best way to solve the infidelity issue. But guys should always have at the back of their heads that the easiest way for a man to loose his life is to "get involved with another man's wife". Killings of this nature has always been common in our communities. In the U.S, a gun was used, back in Cameroon it would'nt have been a weapon...but poison,witchcraft or juju-like practices which are always difficult to prove or persecute. So guys be careful! There have always be more women than men in the universe...the reason why you should stay away from those who are married...and face the remaining single women who are yet in a very large number!

Nungong

That wasn't the best way to solve the infidelity issue. But guys should always have at the back of their heads that the easiest way for a man to loose his life is to "get involved with another man's wife". Killings of this nature has always been common in our communities. In the U.S, a gun was used, back in Cameroon it would'nt have been a weapon...but poison,witchcraft or juju-like practices which are always difficult to prove or persecute. So guys be careful! There have always been more women than men in the universe...the reason why you should stay away from those who are married...and face the remaining single women who are yet in a very large number!

Al. R.  Tamo

Bush and Carl Rove probably did it to distract , by moving the Cameroonian (and American) attention from the unplanned, illegal and unjustified WAR in.....Iraq.
Al. Tamo

Ciao

Et tu Chris!,somebody would be saying now. I find no problem with celebrating the Manyu woman. Stereotypes never caputure the reality. And no Mayu woman shoudl feel denigrated by the picture that is painted of them. But Chris, you lack the bona fides to pronounce on this topic. Or do suffer from amnesia in this case? Are you not also guilty of this same crime? How different are you from Oscar? Some banker somewhere must be asking himself this question.

Moni4hand

Dis Chris dey tif different man e bundle koki? Eh! Tori 4 bitakola!!! Make u no accuse man falsely-oh, because dat na proper wahala 4 u and Jesu Christo.Make u chose tori properly b4 u knack-am 4 dis place-o because na man e face u fit don blow shit wei e no do something sef. Ka chineke me nzo ku.

Jonny

we have nothing to do with age differences. love is love.racheal had accepted to marry enow and did very well to remaind with him until his tragic death.Condemn the act(either adultry or muder) and stop at that.
Many people have such young wives and i see no sin in that.That is no raeson for flirting.Atleast Agbor should not have taken Enow's lineancy for stupidty.It is sad that he is learning his lesson in the grave.He is not the kind of man that could hit to advise considering the fact that he mate his fade just three days after a PUBLIC warning and infront of tens of Manyu people(His elder brother inclusive).He had chosen the path of death and no one should cry more than him who owned that life.All the Enows should learn to think and talk to God or someone befor taking action in matters that borders them most.
Condulences onces again

M&M

Papa Joe,
How e dey like say that Shot black bayangi woman deny for sleep with you so eh?
I no think say you get the tribe correct because na oroko and bafaw girls with 3-4 pikin dem di sleep people man and di go for that place for macland powdersprings.
anyway this forum no be for name names and go off track so I beg no putam for bayangi girls their head oh as na the most decent girls dem that for that nasty ATL

Limbe money doubler

All three individuals involved in this tragic event are fools.

The woman is a fool for cheating openly on her husband with a broke lover.
The lover could only afford to take her to a motel and not a nice hotel. If the lover was financially well off they could have hidden their affair better with secret trysts and the like. He could have helped her move out of the house or out of state.
In addition she was still financially dependent on her husband. If not she would have left him and moved out of the house or changed state. It happens all the time with women whom once they finish school or get a job and have their independent wealth they make their move. So instead of being patient and or being discrete she jeopardized her current financial situation by having an open affair with a broke lover. I do not condemn the cheating because I do not know enough facts. Maybe the husband did not please her in bed. If she had tried working out the sexual part with her husband to no avail then she may be justified in cheating discretely.


The Lover is a fool for having an open affair with a married woman. What happened here is not the exception. Rather it is the norm. For those of you exposed to other cultures you will bear me out. Try going to a Jamaican club and dancing close with a man’s wife or girlfriend in the club and see what will happen to you. Try fooling around with a man from South or Central America’s wife and see what will happen to you. They will not hesitate to execute you. When you do that you are directly challenging their manhood. When you chose to have an affair with a man’s wife you are putting your life at risk, let alone an open affair.
The lover got what he deserved.


The shooter is a fool for not improving his own situation. Your young wife is openly cheating on you. It has been going on for a while and the woman is showing no signs of giving it up. Obviously you are humiliated, angry, upset etc. But guess what? You are not the first person it happens to and you won’t be the last. Instead of wallowing in self pity and feeling sorry for your self, ask yourself what can I do to improve my situation? Should I go back to school, change jobs or career? Maybe if I do that she will come back to me or it will improve my chances of meeting someone else. There are thousands of women in Cameroon waiting to come to America and hundreds of women in America seeking educated and well to do husbands. As they say, once you have money and education you will always have women. I hear he was a cab driver. Did you come to America to be a cab driver? What are you doing about changing your situation? If you feel that your personal situation is hopeless then go back to Cameroon. There are many taxis in Cameroon. I am sick and tired of people whom refuse to take the initiative to improve their life situations and when confronted with a stressful situation take the easy way out.
Life is hard and is not fair. Deal with it.
The shooter is a fool for not personally improving his own situation. He was waiting for the wife to improve it for him. He is in a bad situation and a way to improve it is either reinvent himself or to leave the wife. However instead he was waiting for the wife to improve the situation by coming back to him. Looser.

Antoine

Let someone try that nonsense with my wife and see something.Do it when we are divorced not when she is still in our marital home.That is madness so my own madness will be putting that bullet in the head. Agbor was lucky to get it on the chest.When you get 24 in the head then we will start talking and see how you try it again with another man's wife.
All men here lets keep jokes aside,this is not a girlfriend or some teenage love,this is MARRIAGE for God's sake. No man will stand it,I for one God forbid will do worse probably get someone tie you up one leg to one car and the other leg to another and drive in opposite directions at 200mph.Nonsense,for me since only God should have the final word I will not say what is my mind with respect to the bereaved cos he should rot in ...

Ciao

Moni4hand:

If he think think sei ai lie, make he talk so. Bad to stir a hornets nest, even if he makes a good case. The point is simply that he lacks the credentials to enter the public realm and pronounce on this issue. Wind back the clock and change the persona and Chris would be in Oscar's shoes. Point.

Ciao

Moni4hand:

If he think think sei ai lie, make he talk so. Bad to stir a hornets nest, even if he makes a good case. The point is simply that he lacks the credentials to enter the public realm and pronounce on this issue. Wind back the clock and change the persona and Chris would be in Oscar's shoes. Point.

Estelle

While blaming the 3 concerned in this incident,the socall Rachel is my target.

People are now reacting and behaving as if they are hearing the act of infidelity and prostitution for the first time.Yes, no doubt,the killing has made voices heard,if there was no case of dead,it would have been looked upon as a normal affair,what a pity.How many men and women can move with their heads high up,they are not part of this act.
Remember 99 days for the thief and only one for the owner,in this case,Eno appear to be the owner but the mighty Owner awaits us all on the 100th day.

Eno may have past through a series on stress and provakation but the solution was not a gun.

Agbor,knowing Rachel is married and still flirting with her is something unacceptable in the eyes of man and God.

Back to the Rachel woman,you call yourself a married woman,your husband alive,yet you have the gods to flirt with another man.Shame to you,if you had respect for your self and husband you wouldn't have been flirting with another man,and all this tragedy would have been unheard of.
Men are sex-devils,but women are the center of prostitution.Women have the power to say no,but how many do,we all welcome the sex-devils and the trend continuous.

For those who can't resist one parter.No need thinking of getting a wife or husband,enter the prostitution train or singles club for peace sake.But be ready to bear the endpoint.AIDS awaits you,and had I known will be too late.

Estelle

investigator

Suspect denies role in murder
Edmund Eno enters not guilty plea in fatal shooting
BY PAT GILLESPIE
Staff Writer

Posted on Wed, Jan. 04, 2006

A taxi driver accused of shooting a man to death on Interstate 185 last week pleaded not guilty to the charges Tuesday in Columbus Recorder's Court.

Edmund Eno, 42, of 2910 Eagle Pointe Drive, pleaded not guilty to murder, aggravated assault and two counts of possession of a firearm during the commission of a crime. No bond was set for the murder charge and bonds totalling $40,000 were set on the other charges.

Eno was arrested after allegedly shooting Oscar Agbor, 33, of Austell, Ga., to death as both were driving in separate vehicles around 7 p.m. Dec. 27 on I-185 between Macon Road and Manchester Expressway.

The two vehicles entered the northbound lanes of the interstate at Victory Drive. Eno, alone in his truck, pulled alongside Agbor shortly after the vehicles passed Macon Road and fired about seven shots into Agbor's vehicle, Columbus police said. Eno's wife, Rachel Eno, was a passenger in Agbor's Lincoln Navigator. Edmund Eno was driving a Toyota Tacoma.

Agbor, despite being struck at least four times, was able to guide the SUV to an orderly stop in the emergency lane. He died in the ambulance on the way to The Medical Center. Only Agbor was struck by the shots, police said.

Investigators went to Eno's home on Eagle Pointe Drive, picking him up for questioning about 1 a.m. Dec. 28. He was charged with the murder about 3:30 a.m. after being interviewed at the Public Safety Center.

Tonya Edwards, a 911 dispatcher, started her shift that night at 7 p.m. About two hours after the shooting, Edwards noticed a call that came in around 1 p.m. from a Fort Benning soldier who reported a man in a Toyota Tacoma showed him a handgun and asked if he would show him how to load the weapon. The soldier declined, called 911 and reported the license plate of the truck, which led to Eno's arrest, police said.


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Junior

It's a pitty that one of our brothers lost his life as a price of going out or meeting with another's wife.Yes it is a bad,and ofcourse very bad reaction from one of us(Eno) to take away another's life.
I will use this opportunity to warn all those who leave abroad,thinking theg have their real love back home,are making a very big life mistake.Every grown-up and mature woman will not stay for months and years without sex,on the grounds that,the future husband is leaving abroad.All what she needs is her travelling docuements to a new and shamefull life abroad,with or without a husband.My brothers am also abroad,this kids back home have no experience in life,theg know nothing yet and will at all cost still have to exploit their youthfull age,doesn't matter when.Of course,partying,multiple-affairs,random and indiscriminate sexual relationships are still to come at some point.
If you've been a player for some time,and think you've got to settle down with a young breed from home(imported),you are making a very big mistake.Some of the girls are being connected via e-mails or phone calls,this guys have never met them before,don't even know them,Yes tradition use to be good in the 1930s,but not today,in a rapidly growing world in hightech.We must accept and face the realities of today.A crazy woman next to you is better as a quiet one thousands of kilometers from you.
Yes Eno shot someone,people are different.Some in such a situation,will hide their shamefull wife,and stay quiet.Others can't.In Cameroon,we don't shoot to kill,but witchcraft and poison is the most commonly used,so what's the difference?All end up with death.So it doesn't matter if you are at home or abroad,understand the consequences of dating married women.May the Soul of the victim rest in peace.Am sorry he paid the price for his devellish act by loosing his own life for a shameless animal in the form of a woman.
Brothers get the womman close to you,doesn't matter if white,black,arab or an Asian.We are all human.
Some stupid idiots will use such a situation to express regional sagregation and tribalism.Theg fail to understand that's another form of racism in the blackman's world.A place with no whites.This very idiots will complain of racism abroad,when theg back home are not a single bit better.
Prostitution is every were,but we are stupid because the whiteman makes his wealth out of it.So Cam .ladies,if you want to become a prostitute do it well and openly.Of course,you are bound to pay taxes too like every other person,it's not a crime.I could drop in a dollar if you are really in need.But do it openly,don't hide,thereby others loosing their life.
Those writing their uncivilised and primitive views on this web-site should stop with immediate effect.
The Graffis use this as an opportunity to ridicle the Bayangs.I do agree with the Bayangs when theg do react with angry words.
What hapened is sad and shamefull and doesn't call for this ancient grodge.

callie

Well Johnny thank u for that clarifying who the tribes wey these low life ngah them comot.( Oroko and Bafaw). U.s is not kumba!We no need all that fiango rascalic behavoirs or Buea rd connections here. The owner of that podersprings joint better lookut because the next wahahla go comot na from there. sOME OF these M**F*S THEM KNOW WHO TO MESS WITH. I wish one of them run into some other enow ei hand. If u think say a drive by be bad wait till u see whetti go happen next. Rotten Kumba tiff lass them wey dey di follow people their man them.

callie

Well Johnny thank u for that clarifying who the tribes wey these low life ngah them comot.( Oroko and Bafaw). U.s is not kumba!We no need all that fiango rascalic behavoirs or Buea rd connections here. The owner of that podersprings joint better lookut because the next wahahla go comot na from there. sOME OF these M**F*S THEM KNOW WHO TO MESS WITH. I wish one of them run into some other enow ei hand. If u think say a drive by be bad wait till u see whetti go happen next. Rotten Kumba tiff lass them wey dey di follow people their man them.

callie

Well Johnny thank u for that clarifying who the tribes wey these low life ngah them comot.( Oroko and Bafaw). U.s is not kumba!We no need all that fiango rascalic behavoirs or Buea rd connections here. The owner of that podersprings joint better lookut because the next wahahla go comot na from there. sOME OF these M**F*S THEM KNOW WHO TO MESS WITH. I wish one of them run into some other enow ei hand. If u think say a drive by be bad wait till u see whetti go happen next. Rotten Kumba tiff lass them wey dey di follow people their man them.

callie

Well Johnny thank u for that clarifying who the tribes wey these low life ngah them comot.( Oroko and Bafaw). U.s is not kumba!We no need all that fiango rascalic behavoirs or Buea rd connections here. The owner of that podersprings joint better lookut because the next wahahla go comot na from there. sOME OF these M**F*S THEM KNOW WHO TO MESS WITH. I wish one of them run into some other enow ei hand. If u think say a drive by be bad wait till u see whetti go happen next. Rotten Kumba tiff lass them wey dey di follow people their man them.

callie

Well Johnny thank u for that clarifying who the tribes wey these low life ngah them comot.( Oroko and Bafaw). U.s is not kumba!We no need all that fiango rascalic behavoirs or Buea rd connections here. The owner of that podersprings joint better lookut because the next wahahla go comot na from there. sOME OF these M**F*S THEM KNOW WHO TO MESS WITH. I wish one of them run into some other enow ei hand. If u think say a drive by be bad wait till u see whetti go happen next. Rotten Kumba tiff lass them wey dey di follow people their man them.

Kumba

Callie,
I sense some jealousy and retardations in your comments. From your writings you barely made it to A levels. Also I deduce it has been your dream to go out with a Kumba girl. Some have probably ditched you or refused altogether. Whatever your case, take note, apple for apple, the Bafaws have a higher proportion of high achievers than any tribe in that country given their relative small number.
What! This can't be true. That is because you are ignorant. This information is verifiable:
According to the latest statistics, the bafaws number exactly 35000, 20,000 males and 15000 females. The youths make up 60 % or 21000. 95% of the youths have atlsat A-levels with an astounding 60% with a University education. There is no tribe in that country with such a record. That is why they are in Kumba you jealouse rat!
Next time you comment about the Bafaws take a look at your own tribe and compare apples to apples

Kumba

Callie,
I sense some jealousy and retardations in your comments. From your writings you barely made it to A levels. Also I deduce it has been your dream to go out with a Kumba girl. Some have probably ditched you or refused altogether. Whatever your case, take note, apple for apple, the Bafaws have a higher proportion of high achievers than any tribe in that country given their relative small number.
What! This can't be true. That is because you are ignorant. This information is verifiable:
According to the latest statistics, the bafaws number exactly 35000, 20,000 males and 15000 females. The youths make up 60 % or 21000. 95% of the youths have atlsat A-levels with an astounding 60% with a University education. There is no tribe in that country with such a record. That is why they are in Kumba you jealouse rat!
Next time you comment about the Bafaws take a look at your own tribe and compare apples to apples

Kumba

Callie,
I sense some jealousy and retardations in your comments. From your writings you barely made it to A levels. Also I deduce it has been your dream to go out with a Kumba girl. Some have probably ditched you or refused altogether. Whatever your case, take note, apple for apple, the Bafaws have a higher proportion of high achievers than any tribe in that country given their relative small number.
What! This can't be true. That is because you are ignorant. This information is verifiable:
According to the latest statistics, the bafaws number exactly 35000, 20,000 males and 15000 females. The youths make up 60 % or 21000. 95% of the youths have atlsat A-levels with an astounding 60% with a University education. There is no tribe in that country with such a record. That is why they are in Kumba you jealouse rat!
Next time you comment about the Bafaws take a look at your own tribe and compare apples to apples

mekang

Guys,
Please let's leave this tribe issue aside and focus on what's important here and what the forum is about
What we need to do is start thinking of how to send our brother back home we can't punish him when he's already dead and to me that is enough punishment for his crime and who knows what God has planned for him

4Kilo

Contry people
Why Wona like long long talk soooo.
I beg...wona try summarize wona comments.
We no di do na composition for here.
I bet wona...The longer your comment, the fewer people di read am.
I don pass.....make I go cry die.
Ah ehhhhhhhh
Ah ehhhhhhhh
Mbombo don kill my broder ehhhhhh
Ah ehhhhhhhhh
Ah ehhhhhhhhh
More bullets awaits langa mbombo peopel dem ohhhhhhhhhh.
Neck Jones....I go see wetin he go tell Jesus 4 heaven.

paymassa

Eno could argue that he felt his wife had been kidnapped. All Rachel has to say is that she was raped severally in the motel and held against her will. Game over for the prosecution. ACQUIT !

jabbar treize

4kilo the story is above u lil legal skills. rest your case or find out more about the issue @ hand before u vial for the defense.

jabbar treize

im sorry for this dude eno. u can tell he didn't grow up with bebs. he just like those people out there fighting and beating girls. a woman is elephant meat adn i don't care who u are u can't have her for urself. even u wife for over 100yrs has her lil secrets so give a break. don't trust any woman. they are free and free thing are most often fake but i love them thoug.but i won't kill for any of me gurls

Enow

Hello there my Cameroonian brothers and sisters. It is so easy to sit back and judge people when something this devastating
has happened, but do not forget that we are all human and all make mistakes. Oscar's biggest mistake and downfall is Racheal, but does that give Eno the right to take his life I dont think so. The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away sit back and reflect on those words. Instead of judging people and categorizing Bayangi people and debating on wether or not Eno is Banyangi or Bamenda, what difference does it make they are all Cameroonians. Do you think that to the outside world the tribe matters, NO!! all they know is that a Cameroonian killed another Cameroonian over a woman. This is 2006 we should all sit back and reflect on our lives and our communities abroad and pray to God that a situation like this never arises again. Women be faithful to your husbands or leave if you cant stand them. Men if she does'nt want you let her go there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Enow

Hello there my Cameroonian brothers and sisters. It is so easy to sit back and judge people when something this devastating
has happened, but do not forget that we are all human and all make mistakes. Oscar's biggest mistake and downfall is Racheal, but does that give Eno the right to take his life I dont think so. The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away sit back and reflect on those words. Instead of judging people and categorizing Bayangi people and debating on wether or not Eno is Banyangi or Bamenda, what difference does it make they are all Cameroonians. Do you think that to the outside world the tribe matters, NO!! all they know is that a Cameroonian killed another Cameroonian over a woman. This is 2006 we should all sit back and reflect on our lives and our communities abroad and pray to God that a situation like this never arises again. Women be faithful to your husbands or leave if you cant stand them. Men if she does'nt want you let her go there are plenty of fish in the sea.

modest

Dear Brothers and Sisters, what a shame. you all know we have a culture and our values. we should not be trying to copy stupid and irrationanal behaviours because we are out here. God we all know it is not right to kill anybody for any reason, it doesn't worth the pain you get after.
To all my fellow Brothers and Sister this may be a bitter pill for us to swallow, but I thing it is a great lesson for us to draw inspiration from. Never let yourself to be controlled by you anger.
One more thing before I go, this forum should not be one for people to be throwing curses to each other but one to share our little lessons and advice and condolences.Yes he did a terrible thing, are you better. what is the difference in the magnitute of his sin and you fonicating arround, or cheating, frauding, gossipping or lies telling before the eye of GOd. Basically there is no difference in magnitute, so dear, this an opportunity for you to evalate your own life and pray for his soul.
May his soul rest in perfect peace, and for the guy who obviously will be spending some years behind the bars,let him use this time to re-evaluate his life and make peace with God. that way even if he follows sooner or later, atleast he had the time to reconcile his situation with God. Ashia Bro, but you have to pay you dues.

modest

Dear Brothers and Sisters, what a shame. you all know we have a culture and our values. we should not be trying to copy stupid and irrationanal behaviours because we are out here. God we all know it is not right to kill anybody for any reason, it doesn't worth the pain you get after.
To all my fellow Brothers and Sister this may be a bitter pill for us to swallow, but I thing it is a great lesson for us to draw inspiration from. Never let yourself to be controlled by you anger.
One more thing before I go, this forum should not be one for people to be throwing curses to each other but one to share our little lessons and advice and condolences.Yes he did a terrible thing, are you better. what is the difference in the magnitute of his sin and you fonicating arround, or cheating, frauding, gossipping or lies telling before the eye of GOd. Basically there is no difference in magnitute, so dear, this an opportunity for you to evalate your own life and pray for his soul.
May his soul rest in perfect peace, and for the guy who obviously will be spending some years behind the bars,let him use this time to re-evaluate his life and make peace with God. that way even if he follows sooner or later, atleast he had the time to reconcile his situation with God. "Ashia" Bro, but you have to pay you dues.

modest

Dear Brothers and Sisters, what a shame. you all know we have a culture and our values. we should not be trying to copy stupid and irrationanal behaviours because we are out here. God we all know it is not right to kill anybody for any reason, it doesn't worth the pain you get after.
To all my fellow Brothers and Sister this may be a bitter pill for us to swallow, but I think it is a great lesson for us to draw inspiration from. Never let yourself to be controlled by your anger.
One more thing before I go, this forum should not be one for people to be throwing curses to each other but one to share our little lessons and advice and condolences.Yes he did a terrible thing, are you better?. what is the difference in the magnitute of his sin and you fonicating arround, or cheating, frauding, gossipping or lies telling before the eye of GOd. Basically there is no difference in the magnitute, so dear, this is an opportunity for you to evalate your own life and pray for his soul.
May his soul rest in perfect peace, and for the guy who obviously will be spending atleast some years behind the bars,let him use this time to re-evaluate his life and make peace with God. that way even if he follows sooner or later, atleast he had the time to reconcile his situation with God. "Ashia" Bro, but you have to pay you dues.

leave talk marshell

Leave talk marshell, that man di fuck that woman, make he die. Why u go di fuck man e woman wey e go breagam from payes. may be na the only chap that waey e don ever like that make becos e bi na bush faller. That man weah e die so be fight with the man weah e kill he on christmas eve during sober bokeh for "spike" then after the fight the die man go sleep with man e chap weah e go break gam for payes. Men that me really suffer plentyt plenty go that small thg despite the chap no even fine sap men. That chap get for die too, fuck fuck bayangi na wona work, waka fuck place to place. Marshell that people be comot for fuck that day weah them kill he so. what so ever he die few mins after his last fuck and adultary, satan di wait he.
Hahahahah,

leave talk marshell

Leave talk marshell, that man di fuck that woman, make he die. Why u go di fuck man e woman wey e go breagam from payes. may be na the only chap that waey e don ever like that make becos e bi na bush faller. That man weah e die so be fight with the man weah e kill he on christmas eve during sober bokeh for "spike" then after the fight the die man go sleep with man e chap weah e go break gam for payes. Men that me really suffer plentyt plenty go that small thg despite the chap no even fine sap men. That chap get for die too, fuck fuck bayangi na wona work, waka fuck place to place. Marshell that people be comot for fuck that day weah them kill he so. what so ever he die few mins after his last fuck and adultary, satan di wait he.
Hahahahah,

Alma

My sincere condolence to the Agbor`s family.Not leaving Eno behind,may the almighty God forgive him.My advise goes to all my sisters out there be faithful in your relationship. For brothers know who you are dealing with.Thanks.

Jonny

DISCAIMER!!!
Jonny does not make such mean comments that look like living the substance to chase shadows.Only naroow-minded persons will will live the issues in question to talk about tribes and people who are not part of the deal.People should learn how to participate in forums of this nature.
GET THIS RIGhT-It is M&M that made comments about Bafaws and Orokos and Not Jonny.
Jonny has not lived in Kumba or any of the Oroko villages and knows little or nothing about the indegenes of these two tribes.
Jonny has repeatedly reminded participants in this forum to shun tribal instincts.He was the second person to condem a stupid attribution to the Bayangis or the Meta women.He stated clearly that women of all tribes are involved in flirting while many others respect the marriage institution.
Please, once again shun tribal instincts and be part of the global village.
Jonny

Jonny

DISCLAIMER!!!
Jonny does not make such mean comments that look like living the substance to chase shadows.Only naroow-minded persons will will live the issues in question to talk about tribes and people who are not part of the deal.People should learn how to participate in forums of this nature.
GET THIS RIGhT-It is M&M that made comments about Bafaws and Orokos and Not Jonny.
Jonny has not lived in Kumba or any of the Oroko villages and knows little or nothing about the indegenes of these two tribes.
Jonny has repeatedly reminded participants in this forum to shun tribal instincts.He was the second person to condem a stupid attribution to the Bayangis or the Meta women.He stated clearly that women of all tribes are involved in flirting while many others respect the marriage institution.
Please, once again shun tribal instincts and be part of the global village.
Jonny

Georges

Can someone post Rachel picture somewhere> Na mami coco deh for tha girl hi middle foot and i di scratch. For Mr.Eno I think is time for you to pay for your action. By now that anger is gone and you are faced with reality. First degree murder carry the death sentence in Georgia. Second degree may keep you there for twenty to life. I hope you thought about this before taking the action you did.
Mr. Agbor may your soul find some peace and hopefully there is a leason to be learned by all those who decide to chase married women. I still wonder why a young man who is single would embacked on a death end relationship. Rachel, (i don't know her) is probably not worth a man being in jail and another death.

emmanuel

when things like this happen people write from East to west and from North to south.killing is evil .going after some body's wife is evil.the question is what do we expect from people that are not wash by the blood of jesus.if you take a decision when you are angry you will discover that it will cost you more that the original cost of the problem.the heart of man is desperately wickad who can know it.a leason to all and one.

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