How To Stop Men From Cheating

By Adama Muye (UB Journalism Student On Internship)

Extra-marital affair is a canker worm which is destroying the homes of many today in Cameroon and the world at large.

This is common with men. It has led many women to seriously consider divorce.  After all, if you can't trust the one you love who will you trust? Some men The Post cut up with had different reasons for indulging in such affairs. Most of them attributed such acts to lack of required peace and quietness in their homes.

When wives are nagging, quarrelsome and fail to make their homes peaceful, they push their husbands to the arms of other women who can give them the peace and comfort they desire.To others, most women neglect themselves and do not control their diets when they get married. Thus, increase in weight which result to laziness and inflexibility both in house chores and in bed. As such they go out to get smart girls that suit their taste.

Some said, their wives reluctantly satisfy their sexual need. According to Abraham Maslow "Need Hierarchy", sex, which is a need, is a priority to humans, especially men. When men do not get appeased at home, they are bound to search for it out of their homes.

Others said, when women attain menopause, there is a stop in the production of sex hormones in them. This, according to them, make them sexually inactive naturally and because men are always sexually agile, they easily smuggle themselves out of the house to quench their taste from time to time.

If all these weaknesses on the part of the women are redressed, some men will still cheat. Thus, what every woman should know is that she has as a duty to prevent her husband from cheating. This can be done by establishing an intimate relationship at home.

Intimacy is the unique bond between couples, which links them together emotionally, spiritually and sexually. It is the basis of a monogamous relationship and its absence might be a push factor toward extramarital affairs. It is the feeling of connectedness that forms the basis of intimacy, making it possible for relationships to grow and sustain the challenges that are often brought on by stress, illnesses, work and family problems.

It is the glue that holds relationships together, taking over when the intense passion of a new relationship transforms into a more enduring union based on common values, love and commitment. Women should avoid situations that may push men out, before they start looking for ways to remedy it.

This can be achieved by showing love, respect and concern for their husbands and to pray for God's intervention. Equally important, is the need for effective communication, without which the link between partners is at risk of being lost.

My advice to women is, they should keep fit, take good care of themselves, try as much as possible to meet up with the sexual demand of their husbands, cook well and watch their eating habits so as to maintain normal weight.

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Women should avoid situations that may push men out, before they start looking for ways to remedy it.